So Victoria is 8 days away from being 2 months old… and yes she’s still the most beautiful baby on the planet, lol!! But that’s not what I am ranting about. Obviously… right. LOL!
My bitch is this… I am so irritated with her DNA Donor…errr…her father. If he has even earned the right to be called that yet. And do not ask me for my opinion on that statement… because I’d have to say… umm… NO! He hasn’t earned anything…except maybe an ass whipping!
I can’t believe how much he’s NOT doing… and has NOT done in the (almost) 60 days she’s been alive. I knew he was immature. I knew he was selfish. But I had hoped… for Victoria’s sake that he would at least TRY to be a parent and TRY to fill her needs. I mean Ashley isn’t perfect either but at least she’s doing her best and is trying, daily, to be a good mom and make sure that baby has what she needs. But Caleb??? he’s just a waste of fucking oxygen!!! And I hate to say it but so are his parents. They’re not helping Ashley at all. But they all have a million and one comments to make about how she parents this baby. They challenge her decisions constantly and threaten to do things that Ashley has told them not to. It’s disgusting really. I don’t know how much longer I’ll be able to stand by saying nothing before I snap and tell them all exactly what I think.
I asked Caleb to open a juvenile savings account for his daughter. I asked him to put 5 bucks a paycheck in there for Tori… and ya know what he told me while he was eating McDonalds he got before he came over?? He can’t afford it.. he has no money. Umm No money?? then who paid for the burger your eating fat ass?? No money then why are you buying your 18th bowling ball?? (He still owns and uses the other 17 too) No money?? Then who’s paying for the movie you went to last week?? Or the bowling trip to Reno in July??? and so on… It’s bullshit. He has enough money to spare $5 every 2 weeks for his kid… but he’s a selfish asshole who doesn’t care! He won’t go without to give to his kid!
Ashley needs to wake up and see him for who and what he is. He’s not going to get better… he’s only going to get worse. And seriously… if he can’t be bothered to give a shit now… what hope is there that he’ll care about this kid 10 years from now??
In 2 months he has spent 4 dollars on his daughter… for baby wipes… that Ashley had to almost beg him for. He hasn’t changed any diapers… he hasn’t taken responsibility for anything she needs. All he does is come by 2-3 times a week after school and hold her for maybe 30 minutes. Oh and he whines and bitches that he wants to try again for a boy! That’s it. He can’t fricken take care fo the kid he has but he’s consumed with having another one????
If Ashley has another child with this moron… she is stupid… and she’s sentencing Tori to a life with a loser father who tossed her aside for baby #2… who he’ll only care about if it’s a boy… Maybe!!! And I say maybe because I think after the novelty of..”I got a son.” wears off and real life… and shity diapers moves back in he’ll blow that kid off too. And that’s if he gets a boy… I’d be willing to bet my arms that Ashley would have another girl. and then she’ll have 2 kids… that she cannot afford… by a selfish loser man… who will blow them off.
Tori deserves better then being ignored and blow off. Tori deserves to have a mother who’s willing to stand up to her father and tell him he’s wrong and that he better start doing right… or else kick his ass to the curb!!!
Talk is cheap and any asshole can TALK about what kind of parent they’ll be. But it takes a real person to BE a parent in the here and now. Being a parent is hard and inconvenient. It means putting the kid first and yourself last. and so far…. Caleb does NOTHING for this kid. He puts himself first, second, third and forth. and Ashley and Tori might make it to 5th and 6th on his list.. maybe! He doesn’t care for her physically…emotionally… or financially. So what good is he to Ashley or Tori?? NONE.
I just wish Ashley would see that. She’s so afraid to be alone that she is choosing not to see the truth. And in the end it’s Tori that will end up paying the ultimate price.