I spent most of my day last Thursday and Friday cleaning up financial messes. And one of the things I focused on was my husband’s fines and crap. So… tired of waiting for him to be a man and go deal with his responsibilities…. *I* drove out to the county he got the tickets in over 2 years ago ( 30-45 minutes away from here) and *I* went to the court house and *I* paid his fine. Then I got all the paperwork in order for him to go to the DMV and renew his license. When I got home from that… I took him and his suspended license plates up to the currency exchange and there *I* fix that problem for him too.
All told, it was roughly $500 dollars of a mess that I cleaned up that day. This whole disaster from beginning to end has now officially cost us just shy of $1000 dollars. And just think… he could have fix it 2 years ago for the happy sum of…$120 bucks. But it was much more fun to make it cost a grand I suppose.
Now all he has to do is be a big boy and go renew his license and then go into court next month and show the judge that it’s all done. Anyone wanna take bets on how long he’ll wait to get his license renewed?? I mean I don’t see any reason why he can’t go on this coming Saturday. Our DMV is open then from 8am to Noon and the website says they allow the road tests to be done on that day as well.
But if he follows his normal pattern he won’t go unless I hold his hand and walk him through the process. If I sit back and let him handle it himself…who knows when he deem it important. And honestly I only care because he keeps getting pulled over and ticketed for driving on an expired license. I am afraid it’s gonna happen again and it’s gonna cost us even more money we don’t have. If this wasn’t the case then I wouldn’t care how long it took him to fix his license. ::: Sigh :::
I know at this point the problem is fixed and I shouldn’t be angry about it anymore. I should be letting it go… and I am trying to.
I don’t know why men are that way. He is lucky to have you.